Cape Town Birth Photographer Shares Thoughts on Common Questions and Concerns.
When it comes to birth photography, there are a lot of misconceptions floating around. I get it—inviting someone to document such an intimate and monumental moment in your life can be a little daunting. Maybe you’ve heard a few things that make you hesitate. But let’s set the record straight and address some of the most common myths about birth photography.
Myth 1: “It’s Too Invasive—Isn’t Birth a Private Experience?”
The Concern: Birth is one of the most personal experiences you’ll ever have, so naturally, the idea of having a photographer in the room might feel a bit too intrusive.
The Reality: A professional birth photographer knows how to be a fly on the wall. My job is to capture the emotion and beauty of your birth story without disrupting the flow. I work closely with your birth team to ensure I’m unobtrusive and respectful of your space. You’ll barely notice I’m there, but afterward, you’ll have a powerful visual story of your child’s first moments in the world.
Myth 2: “Birth Photography Is Just Too Graphic—I Don’t Want Everything Documented.”
The Concern: The fear here is understandable — birth is raw and real, and not everyone wants every detail captured on camera.
The Reality: Birth photography isn’t about capturing the graphic details unless that’s what you want. It’s about documenting the emotion, the connection, and the incredible journey you’re on. I focus on the intimate moments—the look in your eyes as you first see your baby, the supportive hand of your partner, the tears of joy, and the overwhelming love that fills the room. It’s not about the ‘graphic’ stuff; it’s about the heart and soul of the moment.
Myth 3: “It’s Going to Be a Long Day—Can a Photographer Handle That?”
The Concern: Birth is unpredictable and can take hours, even days. You might wonder if your photographer is up for the challenge.
The Reality: Birth photographers are trained for this. We understand that birth doesn’t run on a schedule, and we’re prepared for the long haul. Whether it’s a quick delivery or an all-day event, I’m there to support you from start to finish. I come equipped with everything I need to stay energized and focused, so you don’t have to worry about a thing.
Myth 4: “I Don’t Look My Best During Birth—I’m Not Sure I Want This Captured.”
The Concern: Birth isn’t exactly a glamorous moment, and it’s natural to feel self-conscious about being photographed when you’re at your most vulnerable.
The Reality: Birth photography is about capturing the raw beauty of the experience, not about creating a picture-perfect moment. The truth is, in those moments of vulnerability, there’s a kind of beauty that transcends the superficial. When you look back at your photos, you’ll see the strength, love, and courage that carried you through one of the most profound experiences of your life. And I promise—you’ll look more beautiful than you ever imagined.
Myth 5: “Birth Photography Is Expensive—Is It Really Worth the Investment?”
The Concern: With all the expenses that come with having a baby, it’s natural to wonder if birth photography is a necessary investment.
The Reality: Birth photography is an investment in your family’s history. The moments I capture aren’t just for today—they’re for a lifetime. These photos will be there to remind you of the day your life changed forever, to show your child how they were welcomed into the world, and to keep those emotions fresh long after the moment has passed. It’s an investment in memories that you’ll cherish for years to come, and when you see the images, you’ll know it was worth every cent.
Don’t Let Myths Hold You Back!
Birth photography is about celebrating one of the most significant moments of your life. It’s not about being invasive, graphic, or glamorous—it’s about capturing the real, raw, and beautiful emotions that define the birth experience. If any of these myths have made you hesitant, I hope this has eased your mind. Let’s talk about how we can create a birth story that you’ll treasure forever. Check out the link to my Birth Portfolio below and follow my socials for more beautiful birth stories.
Much Love
Deidre
